Filles.

13th December 2009 -

I thought, that because yesterday (or whenever it was) I did a blog about a random fact I found, today I found two groups on Facebook, they were called “35 Things A Guy Probably Doesn't Know” and “35 Things A Girl Probably Doesn't Know”. And I was reading through them all, and became very interested by how some girls have different views on things, plus I learnt some things about boys which I didn’t really know. So I’m going to go through them all, let the boys know which of these girl “facts” are true, and which only apply to some girls, just because I like being helpful.

“1. Girls are very self-conscious when it comes to their looks.” quite true, I think most guys probably know this anyway? It’s pretty obvious to be honest. “2. Every girl thinks she's pretty in one way or another. They just won't admit it.” hmm, yeah I suppose this is quite true, I think most girls have days when they feel pretty, and then some days where they don’t feel as pretty, but that’s quite normal, and they won’t let guys know this because they don’t want to seem like they love themselves. “3. Girls will save instant message conversations when they like a guy and just re-read it and smile occasionally.” Ha, yeah this ones true, I keep chat logs and sometimes like to re-read those cute conversations that made me smile. “4. Girls hate it when other girls flirt.” Well obviously this ones true, I think most people would hate someone flirting with the person they like?. “5. Every girl fantasizes about her wedding.” This one really isn’t true at all, I think to some girls, the idea of marriage sometimes scares us more than it scares the guys. Probably because when we hear the word “marriage” we think of our mothers.. All those wrinkles.. eugh!. “6. A girl's wounds can last a while.“ I’m not quite sure if this one is talking about actual wounds or if it means when a girl’s heart is broken, but for the heart break one, I think girls and boys are probably about the same when it comes to that. “7. A girl will cry over you a lot more than you think.“ Hm, this depends, I think sometimes guys can upset a girl and not even realise what they’ve done wrong, and so yeah this statement would be correct, but on the other hand, the girl could just be over reacting?. “8. Girls love guys with sensitive sides.” Ahh this is soo true! I hate it when a guy acts like he’s not scared of anything, it’s quite immature, if a guy has a sensitive side, it proves he can show his feelings more, and therefore will be able to open up more, plus I think this shows that the guy is more loveable and isn’t afraid to show his true feelings. “9. Girls love confidence. Not cockiness.” Ahh yes this is also quite true, it’s really very annoying when a guy is acting too confident, especially if he acts like he can get any girl he wants, if he’s joking, then that’s alright, but its so pathetic when he’s serious. “10. Girls find it a lot more romantic if you just fall asleep with them, holding them in your arms rather than having a night of hot kinky sex.” Ha haa! Well I’ve never had hot kinky sex, but I think this is probably true, it is really quite lovely to just fall asleep in the arms of someone you love, it also makes us feel rather safe, like nothing can hurt us as long as we’re in your arms. “11. When a girl is mean to you, she usually does it cos she loves you!” yeah I guess this is true, but she may be doing it because you’ve either done something wrong and she wants to hurt you and so she does it playfully so that you don’t realise she actually wants to slap you, or she’s doing it to flirt with you because she does actually like you and wants to give you a hint. “12. When a girl is crying, she feels a lot safer if you pull her close and tell her that everything is going to be alright.” Yeah this is true, it’s always nice to have someone to cuddle you and tell you everything will be okay when your upset, it feels safe. “13. Guitarists are sexy.” ..well, if you say so. “14. Girls always daydream about you, they just dont show it.” Yeah this is true, I actually often find myself daydreaming and sometimes I don’t even realise I’m doing it, it’s quite embarrassing though when you realise your smiling to yourself and everyone is looking at you like you’re a crazy person. “15. The smallest gestures, the smallest stares, and the smallest statements could make a girl's year.” well I wouldn’t go as far to say it makes a girls year, although it would probably make the girls day, maybe couple of days, but small gestures, stares and statements really do mean a lot, it’s the little things that show you care. “16. When a guy says something really sentimental, girls will remember it forever.” Yeah this is true, although remember to only say these types of things if you actually mean them, else when the girl finds out you didn’t mean it, it might take her a while or she’ll find it hard to trust you/another boy again. “17. Girls have a thing for guys who have messy sex hair.” Well, I’m not sure about this one, personally I find this rather true, but I think this may only be true for some people, for others it could just be seen as messy hair, which isn’t always a good thing. “18. Usually, when a girl is sarcastically mean to you, it means they're attracted to you, but are afraid that they'll be showing too much.” hm, sometimes, although it could just be that the girl has quite a sarcastic humour and is just playing with you. “19. Girls go crazy when a guy smells good, usually the natural scent is amazing.” ahh, so true! I love it when a guy smells nice, sometimes this I caused by deodorant or aftershaves, but after a while the guys natural smell starts to come through anyway, which is always lovely. “20. Girls love it when a guy pulls them close by the waist.” This is true, I’m not sure why, but girls do seem to really like being touched on the waist, I think it could be to do with the closeness? It always feels good. “21. Girls love a sense of humour.” I totally agree! I hate guys who don’t have a sense of humour, they’re so boring! Plus I try to be funny a lot, and if they don’t have a sense of humour, they wouldn’t even try to humour me and act like I’m funny, which would make them seem quite stuck up. “22. Girls find it awfully attractive when guys wear just a white t-shirt and jeans and yet they happen to look awesome in it.” Yeah, I’ve never noticed that before actually, it always looks good on a guy when they wear a white t-shirt and jeans, quite sexy if you don’t mind me saying. “23. When girls are online, they want the guy to instant message them first.” Well, not really, I don’t mind who speaks first as long as I get to talk to them, that’s all that matters. “25. Girls like to be told that they're beautiful, rather than hot, pretty, cute, or sexy. It just gives more meaning.” I suppose this is sort of true, although I think beautiful, pretty and cute are all okay words to use, hot is just tacky and sexy is sort of in-between good and bad, it’s good because it’s saying that you find her sexy even if she’s wearing something that isn’t meant to look sexy, but it’s bad because she may start to feel a bit weird about what she wears, like if she wears a dress, she might be thinking that if you think she looks sexy in a jumper and jeans, what will you think of her in a dress?. “26. Girls love guys who know how to dance.” er, im not too sure, I don’t even know how to dance myself, so I wouldn’t really expect him to be able to dance, as long as he doesn’t mind “trying” to dance with me (in other words jumping around and making fools of ourselves) then im happy. “27. A kiss on the neck always feels good.” ahh yes, I love being kissed around the neck area, as long as you don’t turn into a vampire and try eating us, were happy. “28. Girls like boys to be spontaneous.” err, I’m not quite sure what that means, so I’m going to pass on this one. “29. Hugs and kisses must be given at all times.” Yeah sometimes, it’s nice to feel wanted all of the time, although I think kissing and hugging whilst doing something like shopping is probably a no as im sure all the old ladies would be quite put off by this, plus if there’s times like those when you can’t kiss and cuddle, it always feels nicer if you have to wait, it makes you appreciate it more. “30. Girls love to feel special, even though they might not show it, but sometimes boys take it to far and girls start to feel embarrassed.” Hm, I think the first bit is true, it’s always nice to know that someone else finds you special, but I’ve never really felt embarrassed by this, I’ve felt a little embarrassed, but it’s never really been a bad thing. ”31. Guys watching porn is a turn off.” ha haa! Well, sort of, but hey, everyone’s entitled to their own bit of fun I guess?. “32. If a girl really likes you, she will always remember the times she's kissed you, although she wont admit it.” Yeah this is rather true, she might not remember all the little kisses you’ve both had, but she will always remember those most special moments. “33. Girls always count the kisses on texts.“ Well, this can sometimes be true, personally, I don’t always count the kisses on a text, but more is always better. “Girls dont like to wait. So a guy should make a move.” Hm, no I don’t agree with this one, I think the girl has just as much of an opportunity to make the first move, and if she doesn’t then she obviously doesn’t like him as much as she thinks. There’s only 34 facts on here because the 35th wasn’t an actual fact, I think the maker of the group probably ran out of facts to put. I’m quite proud of myself for this blog, it’s my longest one yet, and so on my next blog im going to talk about the other group (“35 Things A Girl Probably Doesn't Know”) and so I’ll probably be doing a long blog tomorrow as well.