Garçons.

14th December 2009 -

Well, I did my blog yesterday on that Facebook group I found (“35 Things A Guy Probably Doesn't Know”) and I said I’d do today’s blog on the other group I found “35 Things A Girl Probably Doesn't Know”, and so I decided to do it as I really quite enjoyed writing my blog yesterday.

“1. Guys are more emotional than you think.” I think most guys are more emotional than they let on, they just don’t want to seem like a pussy, which is wrong because being emotional isn’t always a bad thing. “2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.” See, it’s the little things like that, that show you all care. “3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.” Well girls go crazy over a guys smile just as much, so that’s not really hard to believe. “4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.” Yeah I think that’s about the same for girls as well. “5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest.” I don’t think a girl would really talk about their ex-boyfriends, they may mention them once or twice, but we don’t do it to upset you, we actually try to go to great lengths to make sure we never upset you, and we just can‘t believe how we could become so lucky as to finally find someone who’s perfect for us. “6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.” Well, yeah, but that’s sort of impossible, it’s the same with girls, we want to be the only girl you talk to, but obviously that’s impossible, what would your mother think!?. “7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.” Yeah I think this is quite important in a relationship, saying it too much can make it less special, but not saying it enough can make the other person feel unwanted. “8. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.” (This is basically the same as number one, so im going to skip past it and hope you didn‘t notice). “9. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!.. uh...never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.” This is also what girls do, well I especially do this. I think about things too much and then make it out to sound a lot worse than it actually is, so its reassuring to know that guys do this too. “10. Girls are guys' weaknesses.” Ha haa, I think I know this all too well. “11. Guys are very open about themselves.” I’ve only recently started to notice this, guys are a lot more open about things than girls, which is weird as you’d expect it to be the other way around?. “12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.” Although this may be true, I feel that I have to give advice to a guy if he has a problem, especially if it’s someone I like, I hate having that feeling of being helpless, and although I’m not too good with the whole, advice giving thing, I still prefer to try. We only do this because we care. “13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.” Ive heard this quite a lot, I think in some cases this is true, but sometimes a guy and a girl can tease each other and not like each other? But I think that comes down to how the teasing is, if they’re just friends, then they shouldn’t be teasing each other in a flirtatious kind of way, else things could become complicated. “14. Guys love you more than you love them.” Not always true, I think in most relationships it’s better to love each other a certain amount, else the relationship becomes kind of rocky. “15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.” I think it’s good that this is true, at least then we know how to tell if a guy really like us or not. “16. No matter how much some guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.” Yeah, but even if this is true, sometimes it would feel really good to just slap you for talking about boobs all the time. “17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.” Ha haa! Well that’s really good to know, I suppose I’d better keep that in mind.. “18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.” yeah your not the only ones, we do that as well, probably more than you think. “19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.” Well, why? Doing something stupid isn’t really the end of the world, yeah sometimes people do stupid things but it doesn’t really matter, it’s probably one of the reasons we like you, doing stupid things (depending on what is meant by stupid) is sometimes kind of cute. “20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.” Ahh I have had way too many moments where this has happened, it’s quite amusing, not at the time obviously, but afterwards. “21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.” But how do we know your not just lieing?. “22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me.”” People say this about girls too, but I’ve never really known this to be true, I think sometimes it can be true, but only when you need to be shown that the other person cares enough to not ignore you and stay with you anyway. “23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.” I think I can safely say that most girls would listen to a guy if he was talking serious anyway, yes it doesn’t happen that often, which is why we find it important that we listen to you. “24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.” Ha, I actually do this a lot, but okay, I shall listen to this and just politely say thankyou when this is said to me. “25.When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.” Same with a girl, usually were thinking about how gorgeous you are, either that or were wondering how we got lucky enough to have someone like you. “26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.” Yeah, so have girls. “27. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.” I’m not a snob anyway, far from it I’d say, I try to be polite, but I won’t pretend I’m something I’m not. “28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.” I think it’s probably about the same really, we talk (and think) about you a hell of a lot. “29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are mad and confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.” There is only one thing I can really say to this, we think exactly the same about you. “30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.” Oh my god, I would actually really love to read a guys mind for a day, I would find out so much. “31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.” Yeah, I’ve always known this really, I don’t think anybody is strong enough to handle every little thing on their own, no matter what they say. “32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of us.” Yeah and I hate it when people come to this assumption, but although deep down we know this is true, it’s still hard to just forget everything that all guys have done to us just because you tell us your different, we’ve heard it too many times before. “33. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.” I’m so glad this one is true, muahaha!. 34. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.” I suppose this could be true, unless some guys are ticklish around their necks, then they wouldn’t really like having their neck rubbed. “35. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.” Ahh, I have sacrificed my sleep and health way too many times, it’s only ever been worth it once. Ok, this was also quite a fun blog to do, very long! I’m so proud of myself. I think I might try and do more blogs like this one..