Relations.

9th December 2009 -

I’ve been staring at this screen for, roughly, about half an hour now, which just shows how I don’t really have much to say today. But I have finally managed to find a topic to base this blog around - well done me eh? - and so I’m just going to ramble on seen as though I’m feeling quite lonely tonight so sorry if none of this makes sense. Earlier I copied a column from a magazine onto my other blog, (www.chloee6.tumblr.com) which was basically talking about how modern women love the whole “bad boy” types. (if you don’t understand what I mean by this, then an example is how, over the past year or so, Robert Pattinson has gone from being known as the geeky looking kid from Harry Potter, to being the “drop dead gorgeous and mysterious” Edward Cullen from Twilight) But to be fairly honest, I still can’t seem to get my head around why women are drawn to these bad boy types, I mean seriously, they’re hardly a knight in shining armour are they? - more like an idiot dressed in tin foil riding on a donkey - and so I decided to do some research (yes I’m that sad). And it took me a good twenty minutes to actually find something useful. This is what I have come across, Lord Byron once wrote "Man's love is of man's life a part; it is woman's whole existence.", now I have never been the type of girl to say that a woman is always going to be “the innocent one” in the relationship, as love apparently means more to a women, meaning she is less likely to do anything to ruin the relationship, where as a man may love a woman, but just not enough to try and work on the relationship. I do not believe this one bit, what I do believe is that, these days, it is politically incorrect to pick out fundamental differences between men and women. Although men may seem to love and leave, this is only because a woman wants so much passion and commitment out of a relationship, that it makes the men look like they couldn’t give a shit, which is seriously not the case. And so, using my research and knowledge, I have come to the conclusion, that women usually tend to go after the bad guys because they like the challenge, when you have a choice, to get given something ordinary that may or may not break down or to fight for something amazing that has a better chance of surviving, it’s usually more likely that the woman is going to set her standards high and go for the best, which may seem wrong, but hey, if your offered an ordinary piece of chocolate cake, and then your offered a piece of chocolate cake with extra chocolate which you may have to pay extra for, you’d be more likely to pay that little bit extra for the better chocolate cake too (please do not ask why I just compared that to chocolate cake).